hello, its been a while since i've posted here... i've gone through a lot of emotions and situations since i've found out i was gonna be a dad. I'm 20, gay, and having a child literally anyday now. For further explanation on how this came about i have a intro post in that area..

anyways, me and her obviously are not together and i just do not know when is the right time to start dating after the baby is born? Immediately? 2 years? 1 month? i've never had a boyfriend before and its KILLING me to accept that i will have to wait even longer for that special moment of meeting someone... the problem is i am so young that i'm afraid that as a young gay father, i won't be able to find someone my age who accepts having a child in their lives...

any advice would be much appreciated.
thank!
-derick