That's it. I'm done. No more. No way.
The guys I've been dating lately just don't get it. They "think" they want a family. But it always goes back to them. Their needs. Their sexual needs. Here's a test. If a guy doesn't ask about my son's name in the first few moments of meeting, your outta here. Bye, bye.
I'm a kinda attractive slender Italian guy. No beer belly. Nice and smooth. So, lately I've been checking myself out in the mirror. Not bad. Not bad at all. I look great in my speedos. Heck, I look hot in just my white socks laying on the bed. And you know what? I'm digging it. I feel great. I feel confident again. I feel alive. I've gone back to my 6 day stubble look and tight jeans. And my mind is working over time. I'm smiling again. With a new criteria. If your not a gay dad raising your kid, I'm not for you. I'm not saying it doesn't work for some of you out there. But for me, I need a guy who is experiencing the same thing in the same way. I need communication. I want a household full of love. I want someone who gets it. Who gets it all. So, for now I'm bringing sexy back to my life. Get up off of that thing....

Well Handsome, on gay dad to another, men need to be in the same situation, to be able to understand eachother. I know how you feel. Gone through it too many times!!
By the way, how is your son???

Handsome:: Oops, I forgot to ask, what is your son's name???

Loving Dad of 3,
Glad to hear you understand. My son is the world to me. He is doing fantastic. His name is Andre. He was named after my friend, the Parisian Couturier Adeline Andre. My former wife and I were living in Antwerp Belgium, this is where he was born. I commuted to Paris to work. He was born on the same day as the singer Celine Dion's son was. She sent Andre a wonderful autograph. His very first actually. Aah, La vie.

Loving Dad of 3,
Your turn. Tell me. The names of your children. And how they are doing. I'm smiling.

Hi there Handsome!!
I am beginning to like starting of with this greeting!! lol
Well my oldest son is Mathew. He is 17 and has just started college, where is is learning to be a Chef/Pastry Maker/Chocolatier.
Then there is Jeremy, my 13 year old. He takes after me quite alot, because he enjoys music, and has interests in going into music, one day, proffessionally.
Last, but not least, is my son Philip, who is 11. I call him the little charmer, because he could charm his way out of any situation, with that sparkle in his eye, and his little sly smile!! I Love them from the bottom of my heart. I am a full time dad. They live with me, and to be honest with you, they make everyday bright for me!!

Loving Dad of 3,
Great. Great. Great. Matthew has chosen a wonderful career path. I immediately thought how much he would enjoy Belgium. Lots o'chocolat. Jeremy's world, full of music. Aah, La Vie en Rose. We can't live without music. Go, Jeremy. And Philip. Well, what can I say, he immediately reminds me of my Andre, who I sometimes call the little devil in disguise. I'm a lucky guy. I am a full time dad too. I have my career and always dinner with Andre. Your a lucky guy too.

Handsome: The love of a father towards his children is very special. I thank God for them everyday!! The unconditional love from children to their father, is also a Godsend!!
As much as they fulfill life in one way, there is this emptyness at times to have that special someone to share your kids with. And not only. Even though I am a Dad, the romance, passion, and love for a significant other, burns in my heart and soul. What is more roantic, then two loving men, sharing wonderful moments with their kids, and with eachother.
Opps, that romantic in me is comming through.
I sometimes look in that mirror, and see a rather good looking, sexy guy in front of me, and think to myself, what all these single guys are missing. This Gay Dad, may be 42, almost 43, but I am still as good as I was in my 20s, or maybe even better. I have alot to give, and there is another gay dad out there who would be happy to be with me, and my kids, and I happy to be with him and his kids!!

"Unconditional love from children to their father". Wow. You got me choked up. You got it. Very moving, mon ami.

Now If I could find a guy to love that way it, my life would be complete, and so would theirs. My kids keep asking "When will you finally find that great guy, Dad? You're no Spring Chicken!!" Well I keep reassuring them that that special someone is just around the corner!! Question is which corner?? hahaha I have not given up hope!! We will find that elusive Papa2!!!

Loving Dad of 3,
Have you noticed? We've been updated to "exploring the attic" Hmmmmm............

Handsome: This is a great site to be one. It seems that here we have a great support basis, for everything that goes on in our lives!! Its great to be a Gay Father!!!

hehe... it's based on how many posts you've made. We set that up when we moved from MSN into our new house here on Groupee.

We could change the Karma titles anytime. Any good ideas?

Son of Walt,
Let me think about this one. I'm getting kinda cold and lonely in the attic.

Handsome:
I am sure you will not be lonely for long!!!! Maybe some tall stranger will sweep you of your feet in the nearest future!!! Who knows????